For many Americans, a season of saving

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Cristi Harris and her husband are both relatively secure in their jobs, and they’re far enough away from retirement that the recent stock market drop isn’t weighing heavily on them.

And yet this holiday season Harris and her husband plan to cut their gift-giving budget by 75 percent.

Harris and her family, who live in Colorado Springs, Colo., will make peanut brittle and play board games instead of heading to the mall. They’ll spend about $100 on each of their grown sons instead of the usual $400 to $500, and give low-cost gifts like magazine subscriptions to their extended families.

“We’re really just trying to take a deep breath,” said Harris, 45. “It feels like the country is reeling at this point.”

As the nation heads into the holiday season deeply mired in recession, plenty of Americans have been forced to curtail their gift shopping for understandable reasons: They have lost their jobs or retirement savings or have seen their finances devastated by the housing crisis. But many others say they have decided to spend less even though they are still in relatively good financial shape.

Some cite worries about what the future might hold or want to pare down debt in an era of tighter credit. Others say the recession has served as a wake-up call that spending habits have gotten out of control or say it just doesn’t seem right to spend lavishly when others are facing tough times. For some, an environmental awakening has left them wary of giving gifts that might end up in a landfill.

Even first lady Laura Bush has talked about cutting back this holiday season, saying she is reusing ornaments from years past and focusing on family.

“This year, we’re going to be very, very careful at Christmas," she told The Associated Press. "I suspect that a lot of other American families will be the same."

Americans often tell researchers that they plan to cut back on holiday spending at the beginning of the holiday season, only to give in to the urge to pull out the plastic in the frantic final days. But this year things seem different, said analyst Marshal Cohen of NPD Group.

“There is so little new product, there is so little availability of credit and there is so little desire to go out and try to show the world — you know, that keeping up with the Joneses, that’s over,” Cohen said.

Many families say their cutbacks come after years of feeling like the materialism around the holidays was getting out of control.

Over the years Kim Hobin of Clemmons, N.C., has grown increasingly uncomfortable with the idea of her four children, ages 7 to 13, making lists of things they “need” for Hanukkah. Now, with the economy in such bad shape, Hobin wants to make sure her children understand that there are other families who are less fortunate.

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So this year, Hobin, 41, decided that instead of getting gifts from their parents each night of Hanukkah, the kids would pick charities and give a donation for each night. Her children have embraced the idea, she said, especially since they get a hand in deciding who they can help.

“It just seems like a lot of people are suffering, and frankly we’re not, and I just want my children to realize that to be in this position is a blessing, and so we need to share,” she said.

The plan also is saving Hobin the time and stress of shopping for and wrapping more than 40 gifts for her kids and husband, a veterinarian, to open over the eight nights of Hanukkah.

“I’m thrilled,” she said.

Brian Moore also won’t be doing much shopping this holiday season — in fact, he hasn’t been shopping for anything but essentials since August.

Moore, 22, isn’t worried he will lose his job as an architectural drafter, but watching the impact of the recession on others has been sobering.

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