How to survive the overcrowded skies

6. Miss your connection
If you have the option of flying nonstop to your destination and it doesn’t cost you dramatically more, pay the difference. Connections are generally a pain, as they risk cancellation, delays and baggage loss.

7. Expect a few snags
It is amazing to me how many frequent fliers expect a hassle-free flying experience and are shocked when problems arise. We all know that flying is far from perfect so don’t be a negative Nelly. But maybe you should be pleasantly surprised if your experience proceeds smoothly.

8. Avoid space-available travel
Say you get a deal on a ticket, or you know an airline employee who offers you a pass. You are what the airline calls an SA, or space available. If there is no seat available, you are in store for a long wait, if you get on at all. Stay clear of space available tickets this fall at all costs.

9. Bring your own entertainment
Some airlines are removing video equipment in an attempt to save on fuel weight and the charges associated with onboard movies. Bring an extra DVD or two, a video iPod or — here’s a novel idea — a book. As always, I strongly recommend a pair of earplugs as a must-bring item if you value a nap.

10. Be patient with the impatient
Airline employees are being stretched even more these days. One person is attempting to do the job of four and getting paid less, I might add. While that is not your fault, be the bigger person and put yourself in their shoes if they seem a bit snippy or cold.

If you are flying this fall, I want to wish you good luck and encourage you to drop me an e-mail telling me of your experience. Hope my tips help!

James Wysong is a veteran flight attendant who has worked with two major international carriers. James recently released a new book, “Flying High With A Frank Steward: More Air Travel Tales From the Flight Crew.” For more information about James, visit his Web site or send him an e-mail.

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