Verdict out on impact of pope's outreach

Many dioceses have responded in recent years by requiring police background checks for all employees. At a 2002 meeting in Dallas, the bishops pledged they would permanently remove abusers from the ministry, promptly report new allegations to civil authorities, reach out to victims and create sex abuse education programs. The bishops also created a national Office of Child and Youth Protection, and they hired former law enforcement officials to head it and audit dioceses for compliance with the Dallas policy.

Bishop Gregory Aymond of Austin, who heads a clergy child-abuse task force for the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops, said he has met defiance from some bishops to the diocesan audits.

"I hope his words will give us the opportunity to reach out again to the bishops who have been resisting participating in what we're doing," Aymond said.

Victims and their families have been pushing for further steps. McDaid hopes the pope will investigate the performance of his bishops and remove those who knowingly tolerated or covered up abuse.

"Those who were associated with this problem should be asked to step down. That would promote healing and change in this church," he said. "I think it's coming."

Before becoming pope three years ago, Benedict oversaw the Church's procedures for removing hundreds of accused priests in his role as head of the Vatican's Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith. He publicly decried "how much filth there is in the Church . . . even among . . . the priesthood."

"He was probably quicker than most in the Vatican to understand this problem and the need to deal with it," said the Rev. Thomas Reese, a senior fellow at Georgetown University's Woodstock Theological Center. "At first, the Vatican was saying, 'We have to have due process, due process -- we can't just throw these priests out.' But once they got a look at the actual files, they changed their tune rather quickly."

Cardinal George said that in a visit to Rome last year, he urged the pontiff to address the crisis because "this is the event that more than anything truly impacts the life of the American church. But he knew that."

The pope declined an invitation from Cardinal Sean O'Malley to visit Boston but asked O'Malley to set up the meeting with victims.

It was an emotional week for McDaid. During the papal Mass at Nationals Park on Thursday, Benedict expressed deep regret over the sex abuse scandal. McDaid said he found himself thinking, "I've been waiting from Day One of this crisis for this man to say that" -- and he started to cry, pulling out his sunglasses to keep from blubbering in public.

A few hours later, he was whisked by motorcade with a police escort from a downtown hotel to the Vatican Embassy, greeted by cardinals in their finery and admitted with the other Boston-area victims into a small chapel. The pope entered, knelt with the victims in prayer, then spoke briefly with each of them, beginning with McDaid.

"I said to him, 'Holy Father, when I was an altar boy, in the sacristy of the church where I prayed to God -- that's where I was abused,' " McDaid recalled. "And he squeezed my hand, and I said to him, 'Holy Father, I was not only sexually abused, I was spiritually abused.' "

At those words, McDaid said, Benedict recoiled "like an electric shock."

Benedict looked at the floor for a second, then "he looked at me like he got it," McDaid continued. "We were both feeling the moment as a deep sorrow. So at that point, I pulled out the Irish bread from my mother. That was my sign of peace to him."

Staff writer Michelle Boorstein contributed to this report.

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