An old-fashioned family road trip

By Mark Sedenquist

Travel columnist

updated 10:56 a.m. ET July 20, 2007

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Kids think road trips are cool, at least in theory. The mere suggestion that the family might be heading out on a weeklong odyssey usually ignites serious excitement. As soon as the wheels roll, of course, the anticipation instantly morphs into "Are we there yet?" The challenge parents face is to keep the excitement and sense of wonder alive, even on the long, potentially boring stretches.

Here are 12 tips gleaned from my own childhood memories and from conversations with parents, children and grown-up kids with road-tripping pasts.

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1. Dredge up some family lore. Think of your road trip as a time to share some "family lore." Every family has its own oral history, and road trips offer lots of together time, making them ideal occasions for storytelling. Dredge up those old favorite songs and games, too. As a child, I was an impatient traveler, and I am sure my folks find it amusing that I now make my living writing about the "magic" of taking road trips, but much of my enthusiasm for the road comes from those early family jaunts. Not only do I love the driving and the scenery, I can also sing dozens of vintage songs, play every car game known to man, and tell all the old stories passed down through generations of my family. I'm sure I whined, "Are we there yet?" often enough to drive my parents nuts, but those aren't the memories that linger.

2. Brush up on your history and geology. Another gift you can give your children is a basic appreciation for the history and geology of the areas you travel through. Even if they grumble, squirm and roll their eyes, they'll listen. I'm not the only one who can attest to the lifelong value of such discussions, including the sense of personal patriotic pride that arises from actually seeing purple mountain majesties, fruited plains and spacious skies. As an adult, I've became aware of just how precious this brand of knowledge is, and I now consider those family road trips some of the best education I received during my first 16 years on the planet.

3. Get low-tech. Which leads me to my next topic: DVD players, iPods and other electronic gadgets Call me a curmudgeon, but if these devices are used too often on a road trip, you might as well stay home. Nothing insulates people from their surroundings better than ear buds and a video screen. Take electronic gear along if you must, but limit its use if you want to create lasting road trip memories.

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4. Hold a family planning session. Get a big map and plenty of highlighter markers, and then talk about the cool places that would appeal to all members of the trip. Gather information about your route from guidebooks and the Web. Discuss the scope of each traveling day, including how much time to spend in the saddle and how much to spend sightseeing and hanging out by the pool. Consider making each child responsible for one day's stopping places and restaurants. Including everyone in the planning process invests everyone in the trip and helps ensure a fun adventure for all. One of the most important topics to cover in the planning session is how often the kids will be able to rotate into the front seat. Make the right front seat the "official navigator's seat" and put whoever is sitting there "in charge" (at least for a few moments). The real treat is that it is much easier to see from the front seat and gets everyone interested in the landscape. Of course, very young children should not be in the front seats because of the air-bag danger.

5. Make a trip clipboard. I recommend creating a trip clipboard to hold printed directions to the motels where you plan to stay; these are especially handy if you should reach a city after dark. (I use this technique myself on every road trip.) You can also include directions and information about specific sites and restaurants that you're planning to see.

6. Check out your vehicle. Make sure your vehicle is reliable and ready to go. Of special importance is a check of the tires, coolant and engine oil.

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7. Pack a "go kit." Include bottles of water, a fire extinguisher, beach towels, personal pillows, maps and atlases. And here are some more suggestions.

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