Joy and Sean's 'emails to each other'

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Sean to Joy
Re: My trip
Listen, Joy, You may this I all fun and games, but it’s not. You’ve put me in a serious financial difficulties, not to mention you were going to help me pay our tax bill. That’s about $3000 I never saw the money you transferred was all your credit card draw, and I’ll not put the rest in until you call me NOT email. Call me and we’ll work it out. As for the car, it’s in my name, so unless you start acting responsible, you won’t see any money from that either. I’m even thinking about filing for child support. I cannot afford to live like this. Please do something responsible, Sean.

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From: “ Sean Barclay Goff
To: Joy Risker-Goff
Re: The Kids.

Joy, You’ll never know how hard it is to deal with the kids with you gone. If you could just come for a little while I know Jill will let you stay with her. I’m trying to work and pay the bills, but it’s so hard. Please do something for us. You don’t have to be here for me. Just for them. Love, Sean.

Sean to Joy
Re: Just tucked in the boys
They still pray for you every night. I have no idea what to tell them if you don’t come back soon. I’m going to have to see a therapist and a Child psychologist and find out what to do. You really have to think this over. It’s not too late to come back. We can share custody 50/50 and you won’t have to pay anything for them. I’ll take care of it all. Just please think of them &nbsp, I know you’re not in love with me but at least be there for them
But even if you take a long time, you’ll be able to see them again. They have colds now and need their Dhavi. (Sean’s nickname for Joy)
Sean

Re: Hello
Joy,
The kids are doing better now and not feeling sick. I can tell that [name deleted] is really missing you because he’s getting so sensitive and needy as far as attention goes. I try to give him all I can, but thereis nothing like a mother.

You were far too hard on yourself. You were a good mother. I know you hated it, but you didn’t hate the boys. You just flew off the handle at times. I think it happens to all mothers.
Whenever you come back. You’ll be able to see them again.
Sean

Re: (our sons)
The boys are at Seaport Village with [name deleted] today. [name deleted] said, “Boat” today. You’re missing some very good things in their lives that go far beyond diapers, mundane TV shows and other things. Please call and just talk to them. They love you. Sean.

Re: Pumpin Patch
Hi, Joy, Sheila took the boys to the pumpkin patch today, and I’m staying home and just trying to pray a (unintelligible) everything I wan [sic] you to remember how you believed that a mother’s presence in the home was so important. Remember how your Mom was when your father left. How she worked two jobs to make ends meet. Remember what that meant to you?

You know [name deleted] is your [item deleted]. He needs validation from you. He’s a little boy in a big world. I love these boys as much as any father ever could, but that’s not the love of two parents. [name deleted] may be different, and I know he frustrated you, but I guarantee in six months to a year, he’ll be easy to handle and you’ll feel differently about him.
Just remember, the door to seeing them will always be open no matter what. You don’t even have to be a stay-at-home mom. You can define your own terms. Just be there for them.
Sean.

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To: Joy
From: Sean
Re: The kids
I know what you were going through. I know because sometimes I feel like I’m drowning because I’m taking care of the kids and working at the same time. I know how it feels. Listen, whatever you have to do is fine, but please come back and we’ll work something out that is easy for you.
I need you and they do too.
Sean.

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To: Joy
From: Sean
Re: Tired
Joy, I’m really tired, and I’m trying hard to forgive, and move on, but you must know that this changes everything between you and the kids. I saw an attorney yesterday about custody and child support. I’m going to move on. The kids will always be available for you to see, but the legal part will be handled. I’ve talked with your father about this also, and we are both in agreement.
Sean.

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To: Joy
From: Sean
Re: It’s very hard
I hope you are feeling the pain of separation from our boys. You don’t have to be an everyday mother. You don’t have to have any responsibility at all. Just be here for them. [item deleted]. Remember, okay?

Re: Please call
Joy, you have no idea how hard this is. Please call me or your Dad now. Everyone is worried sick about you and all you have to do is let someone know you are okay. Please, Sean.

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