Watch your mouth!

People divided by age, gender
Perhaps not surprisingly, profanity seems to divide people by age and by gender.

Younger people admit to using bad language more often than older people; they also encounter it more and are less bothered by it. The AP-Ipsos poll showed that 62 percent of 18 to 34-year-olds acknowledged swearing in conversation at least a few times a week, compared to 39 percent of those 35 and older.

More women than men said they encounter people swearing more now than 20 years ago — 75 percent, compared to 60 percent. Also, more women said they were bothered by profanity — 74 percent at least some of the time — than men (60 percent.) And more men admitted to swearing: 54 percent at least a few times a week, compared to 39 percent of women.

Wondering specifically about the F-word? (For the record, we needed special dispensation from our bosses just to say ‘F-word.’) Thirty-two percent of men said they used it at least a few times a week, compared to 23 percent of women.

“That word doesn’t even mean what it means anymore,” says Larry Riley of Warren, Mich. “It has just become part of the culture.” Riley admits to using the F-word a few times a week. And his wife? “She never swears.”

Have a good reason to swear
A striking common note among those interviewed, swearers or not: They don’t like it when people swear for no good reason.

Darla Ramirez, for example, says she hates hearing the F-word “when people are just having a plain old conversation.” The 40-year-old housewife from Arlington, Texas, will hear “people talking about their F-ing car, or their F-ing job. I’ll hear it walking down the street, or at the shopping mall, or at Wal-Mart.

“What they do it their own home is their business, but when I’m out I don’t need to hear people talking trashy,” Ramirez says. She admits to swearing about once a month — but not the F-word.

And Donnell Neal of Madison Lake, Minn., notes how she’ll hear the F-word used as a mere form of emphasis, as in: “That person scared the f--- out of me!” Neal, 26, who works with disabled adults, says she swears only in moments of extreme frustration, “like if someone cuts me off when I’m driving, or if I’m carrying something and someone shuts the door in my face.” Even then, she says, she’ll likely use “milder cuss words” — and never at work.

The AP poll questioned 1,001 adults on March 20-22, with a margin of error of plus or minus 3 percentage points.

For those who might find the results depressing, there’s possibly a silver lining: Many of those who swear think it’s wrong nonetheless.

Like Steven Price, a security guard in Tonawanda, N.Y., who admits to using swear words — including the F-word, several times a day — with colleagues or buddies, “like any old word.”

Price, 31, still gets mad at himself for doing it, worries about the impact of profanity (especially from TV) on his children, and regrets the way things have evolved since he was a kid.

“As I get older, the more things change,” says Price. “And I kind of wish they had stayed the same.”

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