By SARA KUGLER

SANTIAGO, Chile - After a few bottles of local red wine, the truth began to emerge.

One of us was recently divorced. Another faced a career turning point and needed some time to think.

My new friends, whom I met in a language school where I spent my two-week vacation, turned toward me, leaning in to shout over the live salsa music at this tiny bar in Santiago's bohemian Bellavista neighborhood.

"What are you running away from?" they wanted to know.

It turns out, people traveling alone in South America come here to escape something. But while the reasons may differ, anyone can do it like I did, with just two weeks and a small budget.

In the midst of a rough New York City winter, I daydreamed about getting away to a warm place where I could practice Spanish, so I turned to South America.

A language immersion program, where students attend morning classes and often stay with a local family, sounded perfect. Lodging and meals are cheaper, you improve your language skills and it's a safe way for a woman to travel alone.

I located a reputable program with schools in both Santiago, Chile and Buenos Aires, Argentina. Both sounded good, but I found a better airfare to Santiago (about $700), and that was the dealmaker. My vacations are not complicated.

The program I chose, Latin Immersion, offers both homestays and apartments where you can live with other students.

Since I was flying blind and didn't know anything about the apartments, I decided to stay with a family, which seemed to be what most students did. I learned later that either option would have been fine, although the homestay gives you more of the local experience.

I arrived in Chile two days before classes began, and stayed in a hostel that I found through http://www.hostels.com/, a great place to research and even book cheap accommodations all over the world. The Che Lagarto hostel in downtown Santiago cost me about $14 per night.

I spent those first days exploring downtown near the Plaza de Armas, guided by the book I picked up before leaving.

A tall blonde woman on her own attracts enough attention that I made every attempt to downplay the signs I was a traveler, including ripping out the pertinent pages from my guidebook and tucking them in my bag. But Santiago is arguably safer than New York City, and I never felt in danger.

After wandering around downtown, I hopped on the metro to go meet my homestay family.

Santiago's subway reminds me of the system in Washington, D.C., with its clean stations and just a few lines that don't necessarily get you everywhere you need to go. You often need to walk for several blocks or even take a cab, but for a tourist, it's almost better because you see more of the city that way.

The family I stayed with lived in a condo in the Providencia neighborhood, the posh commercial center of Santiago, with wide tree-lined streets, stylish stores and outdoor cafes.

The school was about a 15-minute walk from home, and classes began the next morning. Every Monday, new students take a placement test and then split into classes grouped by ability. I had paid for group lessons ($170 per week plus $140 per week for the homestay), but it turned out I was the only intermediate speaker, so I had my own instructor for several days.

The classes for Latin Immersion met every morning at 9 a.m. in this beautiful Spanish-style mansion whose rooms had been converted into classrooms. The staff put out rolls, fruit and juice every day, plus multiple pots of coffee, and the common area felt like a college dorm, with couches, a television, Internet access and a sunny patio with a pingpong table.

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