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10 tips for being a good holiday houseguest

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BYO (Bring Your Own)
This is particularly important if you're traveling with an entourage. It's not polite to arrive at your host's home and clean them out of staple items like shampoo and toothpaste. The BYO rule also applies to food when you or a family member has an allergy, is a vegetarian or is particularly picky. If this is the case, offer to bring or prepare a dish.

What About Spot?
Of course you don't want to leave your pet behind, but often it is a necessity. Ms. Stanyon says, "Don't ask to bring your pet unless the host is a very close friend and you have reason to believe he or she might be receptive or feel able to say no. If your pet is a chewer or jumper, or has continence problems, arrange for it to be cared for while you are away."

Don't Be a Freeloader
This applies especially to extended visits. If you'll be spending several days with your hosts, treat them to dinner out or offer to cook a meal for everyone. Use your cell phone or a calling card to make long-distance phone calls. Do not monopolize their computer for work or to check e-mail.

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Don't Wear Out Your Welcome
You know the old joke about houseguests and fish stinking after three days. Be thoughtful when you're planning your trip and also be clear about your arrival and departure dates and times. Nothing is more stressful to a host than not knowing when a houseguest plans on leaving.

For more holiday etiquette tips, visit The Emily Post Institute Web site.

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